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Relationship OCD

Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder (ROCD) is an OCD subtype characterized by intrusive thoughts, doubts, or urges related to interpersonal relationships. People might interpret these thoughts as signs about their relationship, and may respond with compulsions like reassurance-seeking or mental checking.

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Are we sexually compatible? Why it matters and how to figure it out

Have you ever wondered what makes intimacy feel effortless with one person and more challenging with another? Sexual compatibility plays a big role in


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What is a trauma bond? Trauma bonding vs. love

If you’ve spent time on the internet lately, it’s likely you’ve come across the term “trauma bond”—a theory used to explain a seeming emotional attachment


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What is love bombing?

Have you ever dated someone who showered you with lavish gifts within days of meeting you? Maybe they spent the following week constantly texting you,


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Why am I not turned on by my partner?

Even though partnerships aren’t all about sex, it can be difficult to navigate a lack of sexual attraction in a romantic relationship. You may worry

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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What is micro-cheating?

“Micro-cheating” is a term used to describe a breach in trust in a relationship. However, unlike the traditional definition of cheating, micro-cheating


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Is it a sin to have intrusive thoughts?

I just had an inappropriate thought about my reverend. Will I go to hell for this? I have recurring thoughts about stabbing my husband. Am I a bad person?


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Is my relationship toxic?

Relationships play a significant role in our lives, whether they are romantic, platonic, professional, or familial, but they’re not always healthy.


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Am I unlovable? Here’s why you feel unworthy of love

Many researchers have confirmed what most humans already know to be true: Love is a biological necessity, just like water or food. Close personal

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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How to set boundaries in a relationship

Boundaries aren’t just about learning to say no—they’re the guidelines we establish to protect our well-being. You’ll encounter boundaries in every


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Am I being gaslighted? Recognize the signs 

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can make you question your beliefs, behaviors, and can even lead to questioning your sanity.  The term


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Overthinking after being cheated on? Here’s how to move on

Cheating may have left you with a barrage of questions, and it's natural to find them overwhelming. But how can you learn to cope?


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Is it toxic to check my partner’s phone? 

Is checking your partner's phone a breach of trust? Learn why this behavior can be toxic and how it can affect your relationship.

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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How to deal with a fear of commitment in relationships

You may want to commit, but when it comes time to actually do it, your alarm bells sound. Learn what's going on, and what you can do.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Why do I have a fear of cheating?

A fear of cheating is fairly common, but if this fear is disrupting your life, it could be a sign of a more serious issue.


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Why am I doubting my attraction to my partner? Is it ROCD?

Occasional worry or doubt or insecurity in any relationship is normal—but sometimes, questioning your attraction can end up overtaking your life.


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Why am I so scared of my partner leaving me?

Think your partner is going to leave the relationship? Read on to find out the root causes of your fears and what you can do to resolve them.

By Taneia Surles

Reviewed by Michaela McCloud

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Touch Aversion: Why Do I Hate Physical Touch?

If you feel like your aversion to being touched is intense, it’s natural to wonder what the underlying cause might be—especially if it's interfering with your life.

By Yusra Shah

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Avoidant Attachment Style: Traits and Relationship Challenges

Learn what an avoidant attachment style means for adults, including traits and how it can impact relationships.

By Taneia Surles

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Am I Falling Out of Love? How to Know if Your Fear Is a Reality

Thinking you’re falling out of love can be scary. If you’re wondering if it could happen to you, you’re not alone—here's what you should know.

By Yusra Shah

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Worried your partner doesn’t love you? Top signs they do

If you're constantly feeling worried whether or not your partner loves you, you're not alone—and you don't always have to feel this way.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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