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Relationship OCD

Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder (ROCD) is an OCD subtype characterized by intrusive thoughts, doubts, or urges related to interpersonal relationships. People might interpret these thoughts as signs about their relationship, and may respond with compulsions like reassurance-seeking or mental checking.

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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What is a trauma bond? Trauma bonding vs. love

If you’ve spent time on the internet lately, it’s likely you’ve come across the term “trauma bond”—a theory used to explain a seeming emotional attachment


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What is love bombing?

Have you ever dated someone who showered you with lavish gifts within days of meeting you? Maybe they spent the following week constantly texting you,


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Why am I not turned on by my partner?

Even though partnerships aren’t all about sex, it can be difficult to navigate a lack of sexual attraction in a romantic relationship. You may worry


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What is micro-cheating?

“Micro-cheating” is a term used to describe a breach in trust in a relationship. However, unlike the traditional definition of cheating, micro-cheating

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Is it a sin to have intrusive thoughts?

I just had an inappropriate thought about my reverend. Will I go to hell for this? I have recurring thoughts about stabbing my husband. Am I a bad person?


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Is my relationship toxic?

Relationships play a significant role in our lives, whether they are romantic, platonic, professional, or familial, but they’re not always healthy.


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Am I unlovable? Here’s why you feel unworthy of love

Many researchers have confirmed what most humans already know to be true: Love is a biological necessity, just like water or food. Close personal


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How to set boundaries in a relationship

Boundaries aren’t just about learning to say no—they’re the guidelines we establish to protect our well-being. You’ll encounter boundaries in every

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Am I being gaslighted? Recognize the signs 

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can make you question your beliefs, behaviors, and can even lead to questioning your sanity.  The term


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Fear of intimacy: causes, symptoms, and how to get better

Fear of intimacy can be a difficult and isolating experience. If you’ve typically hesitated to form close emotional or physical relationships with others,


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Avoidant Attachment Style: Traits and Relationship Challenges

Learn what an avoidant attachment style means for adults, including traits and how it can impact relationships.

By Taneia Surles

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Am I Falling Out of Love? How to Know if Your Fear Is a Reality

Thinking you’re falling out of love can be scary. If you’re wondering if it could happen to you, you’re not alone—here's what you should know.

By Yusra Shah

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Worried your partner doesn’t love you? Top signs they do

If you're constantly feeling worried whether or not your partner loves you, you're not alone—and you don't always have to feel this way.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Overthinking after being cheated on? Here’s how to move on

Cheating may have left you with a barrage of questions, and it's natural to find them overwhelming. But how can you learn to cope?

By Jenna Demmer

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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How big an age gap is too big in a relationship?

With a significant age gap, you may wonder if there’s too much distance between you. But if it becomes a real obsession we have help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Managing Tinder anxiety and overthinking – Tips from therapists

It’s normal to overthink things sometimes. But if it’s getting in the way of your life and ability to make connections with people, it could be a component of OCD.

By Jenna Demmer

Reviewed by Patrick McGrath, PhD

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Love vs. Obsession: How to tell the difference

If you're worried about your own feelings for someone else, it's important to draw the line between obsession and love.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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First-date nerves and how to ease them

Let's untangle some of the reasons that you might be feeling first-date anxiety—as well as the kinds of steps you can take to overcome it.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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I’m scared of being vulnerable. Can therapy help?

Being vulnerable is important for building relationships, but it’s not always easy to open up. Here’s why that might be, and how to find help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Is it love or just lust? A therapist’s advice

How to know if your feelings are love, lust or even a sign of a mental health issue—from a therapist with expertise.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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