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Relationship OCD

Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder (ROCD) is an OCD subtype characterized by intrusive thoughts, doubts, or urges related to interpersonal relationships. People might interpret these thoughts as signs about their relationship, and may respond with compulsions like reassurance-seeking or mental checking.

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Are we sexually compatible? Why it matters and how to figure it out

Have you ever wondered what makes intimacy feel effortless with one person and more challenging with another? Sexual compatibility plays a big role in


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What is a trauma bond? Trauma bonding vs. love

If you’ve spent time on the internet lately, it’s likely you’ve come across the term “trauma bond”—a theory used to explain a seeming emotional attachment


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What is love bombing?

Have you ever dated someone who showered you with lavish gifts within days of meeting you? Maybe they spent the following week constantly texting you,


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Why am I not turned on by my partner?

Even though partnerships aren’t all about sex, it can be difficult to navigate a lack of sexual attraction in a romantic relationship. You may worry

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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What is micro-cheating?

“Micro-cheating” is a term used to describe a breach in trust in a relationship. However, unlike the traditional definition of cheating, micro-cheating


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Is it a sin to have intrusive thoughts?

I just had an inappropriate thought about my reverend. Will I go to hell for this? I have recurring thoughts about stabbing my husband. Am I a bad person?


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Is my relationship toxic?

Relationships play a significant role in our lives, whether they are romantic, platonic, professional, or familial, but they’re not always healthy.


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Am I unlovable? Here’s why you feel unworthy of love

Many researchers have confirmed what most humans already know to be true: Love is a biological necessity, just like water or food. Close personal

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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How to set boundaries in a relationship

Boundaries aren’t just about learning to say no—they’re the guidelines we establish to protect our well-being. You’ll encounter boundaries in every


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Am I being gaslighted? Recognize the signs 

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can make you question your beliefs, behaviors, and can even lead to questioning your sanity.  The term


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Love vs. Obsession: How to tell the difference

If you're worried about your own feelings for someone else, it's important to draw the line between obsession and love.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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First-date nerves and how to ease them

Let's untangle some of the reasons that you might be feeling first-date anxiety—as well as the kinds of steps you can take to overcome it.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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I’m scared of being vulnerable. Can therapy help?

Being vulnerable is important for building relationships, but it’s not always easy to open up. Here’s why that might be, and how to find help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Is it love or just lust? A therapist’s advice

How to know if your feelings are love, lust or even a sign of a mental health issue—from a therapist with expertise.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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I’m always obsessing about my partner’s past. What can I do?

Here’s what your obsessions about your partner’s past could mean, and how to find help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Why do I get sleepy around my partner? A therapist’s take

Feeling sleep around your partner can be a totally normal experience, or mean something more.

By Erica Digap Burson

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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How can therapy help me deal with rejection?

Rejection hurts, but therapy can help you work through the thoughts you have surrounding it.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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I keep dreaming about my ex. Does it mean anything? 

Exes can be loaded and emotional subjects, and having them pop up in your dreams can evoke a wide range of emotions.

By Erica Digap Burson

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Why am I not turned on by my partner? Advice from a therapist

It’s normal for libido to wax and wane. But sometimes, a mental health condition like OCD won’t let you accept that.

By Jessica Migala

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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How do I know my dog loves me? Advice from a therapist

In my years as a therapist, I've helped many people who werewracked with doubts about whether their dog loves them. Here's how I've helped.