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Relationship OCD

Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder (ROCD) is an OCD subtype characterized by intrusive thoughts, doubts, or urges related to interpersonal relationships. People might interpret these thoughts as signs about their relationship, and may respond with compulsions like reassurance-seeking or mental checking.

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Are we sexually compatible? Why it matters and how to figure it out

Have you ever wondered what makes intimacy feel effortless with one person and more challenging with another? Sexual compatibility plays a big role in


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What is a trauma bond? Trauma bonding vs. love

If you’ve spent time on the internet lately, it’s likely you’ve come across the term “trauma bond”—a theory used to explain a seeming emotional attachment


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What is love bombing?

Have you ever dated someone who showered you with lavish gifts within days of meeting you? Maybe they spent the following week constantly texting you,


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Why am I not turned on by my partner?

Even though partnerships aren’t all about sex, it can be difficult to navigate a lack of sexual attraction in a romantic relationship. You may worry

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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What is micro-cheating?

“Micro-cheating” is a term used to describe a breach in trust in a relationship. However, unlike the traditional definition of cheating, micro-cheating


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Is it a sin to have intrusive thoughts?

I just had an inappropriate thought about my reverend. Will I go to hell for this? I have recurring thoughts about stabbing my husband. Am I a bad person?


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Is my relationship toxic?

Relationships play a significant role in our lives, whether they are romantic, platonic, professional, or familial, but they’re not always healthy.


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Am I unlovable? Here’s why you feel unworthy of love

Many researchers have confirmed what most humans already know to be true: Love is a biological necessity, just like water or food. Close personal

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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How to set boundaries in a relationship

Boundaries aren’t just about learning to say no—they’re the guidelines we establish to protect our well-being. You’ll encounter boundaries in every


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Am I being gaslighted? Recognize the signs 

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can make you question your beliefs, behaviors, and can even lead to questioning your sanity.  The term


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Why am I not turned on by my partner? Advice from a therapist

It’s normal for libido to wax and wane. But sometimes, a mental health condition like OCD won’t let you accept that.

By Jessica Migala

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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How do I know my dog loves me? Advice from a therapist

In my years as a therapist, I've helped many people who werewracked with doubts about whether their dog loves them. Here's how I've helped.

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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How to stop obsessing over texts—advice from an OCD therapist

Relationships are difficult, but sometimes worrying over texts exceeds general anxiety about a relationship. Let’s explain something called Relationship OCD.


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Fear of being fired: Is it OCD?

Gain valuable insights into the potential relationship between fear of being fired and OCD, empowering yourself to navigate work-related anxiety.


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Fear of someone reading your mind

Is thinking people can read your thoughts OCD? Discover the symptoms, triggers, and effective treatments to help overcome fear of mind reading in OCD.


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Why am I scared to be happy in a relationship?

If you find yourself consistently scared to be happy in a relationship, it may be a sign that you have relationship-themed OCD, or ROCD.

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Fears about being a rapist

OCD focused on the fear of rape involves repeated intrusive, obsessive thoughts involving rape that cause intense anxiety or distress.

By Amber Samson, LCPC

Reviewed by Patrick McGrath, PhD

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Paternity fears

Paternity fears in OCD involve unwanted intrusive, irrational thoughts which create doubt about the identity of the father of one’s child, from the perspective of any parent.


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Fears about Divorce in Relationship OCD

Fear of divorce, a subtype of Relationship OCD (ROCD) may include specific fears or worries about divorce.


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Fear of Abandonment—Is it OCD or Anxiety?

Fear of abandonment involves a chronic, persistent fear that someone will leave them, This fear can present on its own or as OCD.