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Sexuality and Gender OCD

Sexual orientation OCD (SO-OCD) is a subtype of OCD that is characterized by intrusive thoughts and doubts about a person’s sexuality. Similarly, people with OCD may experience intrusive doubt about their gender identity. In both cases, uncertainty is the source of anxiety and fear—not any particular identity itself.

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Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Am I asexual? Understanding your sexual identity.

Questioning your sexuality is a deeply personal experience, and it’s more common than you might think. If you feel alienated by traditional expectations


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What is fictosexuality and is it a problem?

In spring of 2022, a story about Akihoko Kondo, a man who unofficially married a hologram of a fictional character, appeared in the New York Times. As the


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What is objectophilia? The attraction toward objects, explained

In 1979, Eija-Riitta Eklöf, who was in love with structures, married the Berlin Wall. Yes, a wall. Eklöf made the case that objectophilia, the sexual or


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Hypersexuality & Compulsive Sexual Behavior: Symptoms and Treatment

Although societal attitudes have shifted to being more open about sex, it still remains a topic surrounded by stigma, shame, and taboo. As a result, you

Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Bisexuality & SO-OCD: The Invisible SO-OCD

This is a guest post by Sarah Stanton, autistic/ADHD/OCD advocate and facilitator of the NOCD Autism and OCD support group for members in NOCD Therapy.


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Is HOCD the Same as SO-OCD? What You Need to Know

“I don’t even care if I’m gay or straight — I just want to know for sure.”


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Is SO-OCD (HOCD) Just Denial? The Truth About Sexual Orientation OCD

Questioning your sexual orientation is incredibly common, and it’s a thought anyone can have. You might be watching a movie with your significant other


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SO-OCD: Thoughts, Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment

Disclaimer: This article deals with SO-OCD (also referred to as Homosexual OCD or Sexual Orientation OCD) and touches on potentially sensitive issues

By Caryn Gill

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Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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What does it mean if you’re having same-sex dreams? A therapist’s advice

If you’re finding dreams and doubts distressing, you should know that a same-sex dream is very unlikely to be an true indicator of your sexuality.


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What is my sexuality? A therapist’s advice on trying to figure it out

I’ve worked with plenty of patients who feel deep distress over doubts about their sexuality. Learn some of the reasons why, and what you can do about it.


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Can I trust myself around children? A therapist’s advice

We'll explain why intrusive thoughts and obsessions about sexually harming children do not reflect OCD sufferers' true desires or values.

By Grant Stoddard

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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How can I deal with unwanted sexual dreams? Advice from a therapist

Let’s explore the real nature of sexual dreams, and discuss how you can find relief in your waking and sleeping hours alike.

Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Can watching porn be a compulsion in SO-OCD?

Discover why watching porn might be compulsive, how you can learn if your own behaviors are SO-OCD compulsions, and what you can do.

By Grant Stoddard

Reviewed by Patrick McGrath, PhD

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Masturbating makes me feel guilty or afraid. What can I do?

As a therapist who treats OCD, I’ve learned that for some people, fears about masturbation can become overwhelming.


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Fears about Bestiality

Repeated thoughts or fears about sexual attraction or actions involving animals may be a sign of bestiality-themed OCD.


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Fear of being a bad person

OCD focused on fear of being a bad person involves recurrent, persistent, unwanted and intrusive thoughts or images about being a bad person.

Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Fears about magical impregnation

Magical impregnation fears in OCD involve concerns about getting pregnant or getting someone else pregnant despite lack of sexual intercourse.


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Fears about polygamy

If you’re experiencing recurrent intrusive fears about intentionally or unintentionally engaging in acts of polygamy, it may be OCD.