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Sexuality and Gender OCD

Sexual orientation OCD (SO-OCD) is a subtype of OCD that is characterized by intrusive thoughts and doubts about a person’s sexuality. Similarly, people with OCD may experience intrusive doubt about their gender identity. In both cases, uncertainty is the source of anxiety and fear—not any particular identity itself.

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Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Dreams about sexual assault: Do they mean anything?

Sexual assault is among the most immoral behaviors one can think of—but be wary of interpreting disturbing dreams as significant.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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I’m turned on by furry porn. Does that mean I’m attracted to animals?

Fantasies are safe ways to explore your sexuality, but OCD has a way of twisting your thoughts in ways that are untrue and harmful.

By Jessica Migala

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Intrusive thoughts about rape—do they actually mean anything?

These disturbing thoughts can become completely overwhelming. You're not alone, and you don't have to live in fear of your own thoughts.

By Grant Stoddard

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Fears about incest – What do they mean?

Incest OCD involves intrusive and unwanted sexual thoughts, images, or urges about family members that cause distress or anxiety, as well as compulsions to manage or eliminate this anxiety.

Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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I watched incest porn. Is there something wrong with me? What therapists say

Sexual fantasies do not necessarily indicate something you want to happen in real life—but some may be especially distressing. Here's what you can do.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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“I’m scared I have an unwanted kink or fetish. What can I do?” Here’s what experts say

Feeling anxious about an unwanted kink or fetish? Discover effective steps and expert guidance to address your concerns and find peace of mind.

By Grant Stoddard

Reviewed by Patrick McGrath, PhD

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If I like lolicon, does it mean I’m a pedophile? A therapist’s view

It's crucial to emphasize that fantasy remains distinct from action, or even from other kinds of desire.


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Why do I have sexist intrusive thoughts? A therapist explains

Intrusive thoughts are, by nature, out of alignment with one’s values—but nevertheless, they can feel extremely worrying and shameful.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Do you think you might have Sexuality and Gender OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

7 min read
I’m afraid I’m attracted to a family member. What can I do?

As a therapist, I’ve worked with many people who have this fear, and I’ve helped them uncover the reason behind it.


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Worried about getting unwanted erections? You’re not alone

Unwanted erections are unavoidable. But for some, fear and worry about these normal occurrences can become extremely distressing.

By Grant Stoddard

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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